Lots of couples lose the sexual connection with each other when they grew old or they have children and sometimes financial crises can also be the key factor that plays an important role to lose the sexual desire between couples. If you are among those couples who are facing this problem than the best way to overcome this problem is be open and do not shy to explain your desires and feelings to your partner.

If one of you wants to have intense sex with each other than do not shy to explain your feelings to your partner. Let him/her know how you want to feel each other during sex. Sometimes lots of couples do not have sex even for months. Look out carefully why you want sex less in your life; find out what your partner expects from you, what he/she wants from you during sex?

It’s possible that one of the partner afraid to be hugged or kissed because he/she don’t want to have a sex at that time. If this is the situation than try to understand your partner’s feeling. Let him/her feel comfortable but do not loose physical contact with each other. Let your partner realized that you also respect his/her feeling and hug is a hug and kiss is merely a kiss.